7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens
Habit 4
4. Think Win-Win
Teens can learn to
foster the belief that is possible to create an atmosphere of Win-Win in every
relationship. This habit encourages the idea that in any given discussion or
situation both parties can arrive at a mutually beneficial solution. Your teen will
learn to celebrate the accomplishments of others instead of being threatened by
them. Win-Win is a belief that
everyone can win. It’s both nice and tough all at once. I won’t step on you,
but it won’t be your doormat either. You care about other people and you want
them to succeed. But you also care about yourself, and you want to succeed as
well. Win-Win is abundant. It is belief that there is plenty of success to go
around. It’s not either you or me. It’s both of us. It’s not a matter of who
gets the biggest piece of the pie. There’s more than enough food for everyone.
It’s an all-you-can-eat buffet.
Win-win always creates
more. Perhaps the most benefit of thinking Win-win or one of the alternatives
is how you feel. Win-Lose and Lose-Win thinking will cloud your judgment and
fill you with negative feelings.
Win- win will fill
your heart with happy and serene thoughts. It will give you confidence. Even
fill you with light. Think Win-Win or no deal.
CHOOSE THE
RIGHT!!!
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